The problem of finding partners is a recurring theme on this sub. We made a decision at the beginning of the reboot of this sub to disallow "r4r" and "massage wanted" posts, because that just turns the sub into a typical r4r bulletin board filled with massage parlor ads. In the past, we've pointed people to /r/EroticMassage or their local r4r sub. But there's clearly a demand for something more focused.

One possibility we could try as an experiment would be having a single, stickied thread every month where readers can post what they're looking for. So that's what this is, an experiment.

Here's a first draft of the rules. If you have any suggested improvements, please share them below:

1. Reply to this post with your gender, sexual orientation, age, and general location, and describe who and what you are looking for. For example, short-term partner to learn with, possible long-term partner, paid massage, or whatever.
2. Keep it short and simple. E.g., "27M, London, UK, looking for skilled female massage therapist with authentic knowledge of tantra, for paid massage."
3. ONE listing per month! People who spam the thread will be banned.
4. If you want to respond to any of these listings, do it in DMs. Do NOT reply to any of the listings here.
5. Please remove your listing or add a note if you find what you're looking for.

Reminder: if you usually sort this sub on "New," you will need to switch it to "Hot" to keep this thread at the top. But you will need to *sort this thread* on "New" to see new listings. (Complicated, I know. Sorry!)