u/John637389 posted these questions:

Hello, I'm John I just had a few questions about tantra massage.

1. Should I be worried that I haven't meditated consistently for a while? my longest was 90 days and I felt enlightenment, it was amazing. I've been off it for a while but trying to get back into it.

2. Should I shave or trim my pubes? I've never done it before and read it can make the experience more intimate if you do. I'm just nervous about if I do it wrong damage or infection might occur.

3. Should I get rid of my chest and back acne before the massage? I'm trying but if there are a few spots should I be worried?

4. I've been on seamen retention and no fap for 2 months now would a tantra massage break my streak if I do ejaculate and will it drain my lifeforce?

5. should I train my pc muscle? I've been doing it for a week 3 times a day then found out it's only older guys that need to do them. is there any benefit of my training my pc muscle?

6. My shoulder and back are injured should I wait till there healed before getting the massage?

7. how should I receive a tantra massage? or should I just go with the flow and let her guide me?