Hi,

First, maybe some context. My wife and I are together for nearly 12 years, married for 3,5. We both turn 30 this year. Our relationship is great, both emotionally and physically. We feel as if tantric sex is more of a natural next step, than it needing to fix something. We’ve been reading Shakti’s blog and we’ve planned on taking our first steps towards learning the ritual she describes this weekend. We both know how to meditate, but this weekend we’ll start with learning the couples meditation.

We’re not sure where to go from there. We assume it’s probably not wise to try and complete the full ritual from the start, once we’ve mastered the couples meditation. So our question is, what do we do? Start a part of the ritual and for example end in ‘regular’ sex after the meditation? Practice each step of the ritual separately without it ending in sex? Something else?

Thank you for your advice! We’re eager to learn and see what this can and/or will do for us and our relationship!

Mr Jay