So recently I went to get a (traditional) massage from this masseur who has a really good reputation. It was the best massage I ever had! The place was so cosy, the atmosphere was perfect and he did a really amazing job.

I remembered that he used to offer tantric massages but I heard he doesn’t advertise it anymore but he still does it with clients he knows well.

I didn’t book a tantric massage though but rather a traditional one. The massage started like a traditional one but as we continued it did feel a bit less clinical than most massages, and I really let go as he was doing his magic. I did actually get very aroused down there and I think he probably realized as the sheet he used to cover me was sticking a bit to my crotch. He ended up asking me if I wanted to have my chest covered or not for the upper part and I said I didn’t need to cover it. He didn’t touch my breasts or my crotch at any time. It was a fantastic experience that left me so relaxed and so connected to my feminine. I loved it.

I am very clueless about tantrism and I was wondering if what happened was a tantric massage or not? I would love to do it again but don’t know how to approach things with him.