Hello,

I'm a regular massage goer (doing lots of exercise) but I'm recently contemplating booking a certified Tantra Massage (in germany) as I'm quite curious. I've been practicing tantric masturbation techniques for quite some time now, so I think a full massage would be a nice experience. However, of course I'm a bit scared/hesitant to book the first massage. Not because of my personal doubts with it per se, but I guess just due to the social stigma (and what people I know may think of it) that may accompany having a massage that includes the intimate area. Is it a normal thing to experience this kind of "shame" or hesitancy for a complete beginner?