I dance tango with my wife and we started together, I think, 7 years ago. Initially, we went through a few teachers until covid hit nicely. At that time, the teachers were 90% of time focused on me. With one, I even had to stop the course because he was lacking method but again, he was focused only on my mistakes and posture.

During covid we pretty much abandoned tango for a couple of years and then since 2022 we stared again classes, with different teachers. At this time, we were mainly learning figures. However, some figures were quite unconfortable with my wife, my impression was that she was lacking a bit of balance, she was sometimes anticipating, and she was a bit too rigid on her legs. The problem is that, as a couple, when something does not work out it is always a circular discussion on "I did not do well because you did not guide well". So in my opinion there is very few room to progress.

Lately we had the chance to have privates with big maestros. I was very surprised when 4 of them in a row were focusing on the hips of my wife, apparently she never relaxes them and it becomes very difficult to make some figures. I am actually quite glad that we have some material to work on now, we will focus on this. What is the best way to abandon a bad posture? What can I do on my side to help her?