Hello, I am new in the community although I dance tango with my wife since several years. She is very shy as person, in general when we go in milongas she does not look actively to get invited. If some people invite her directly it works pretty well, but it is very difficult to her the mirada cabeceo system. In the end, she dances quite a lot with me, and very few with other people. In worst cases she is very much frustrated (and me too). I would like to help her, but I also notice that if I try to push her to actively look for partners she gets even more nervous. I know it might not be the best way, but the problem is really this, many times I see men looking at her to invite, but instead of looking at them she looks to the ground. Anybody in the same situation?