This is my 1st time stating this publicly so bare with me plz!! 😅 It's a long read but I'm hoping to only get genuine replies by weeding out the nonsense.

I am a 45yr old dad of 5 ranging from 12 to 30, with 7 grandkids. My youngest is 12 and lives with me full time. My adult stepdaughter and one of my adult daughters both still live with me also, including one of thems fiance and their 4 kids. (We both started young!) So my home is full and busy and happy, despite my wife leaving me and moving in with her boyfriend 2yrs ago. Our family has endured though and all of us are regaining our health and happiness as i heal from my own loss of her. 🥰

This was not my 1st time being a single dad with a house full so I easily stepped into the rest of the roles and we all live pretty seamlessly. I have, however, likely due to being in this home with these amazing beautiful women who all cohabitate amazingly well, begun to notice an attraction to the idea of a younger stepdaughter type relationship that involves everything from just comfort and advice to a helping hand fixing or moving something to developing into a safe and fun SIDE physical relationship as well. I desire something that i would never attempt with my own actual stepdaughter who i love dearly as my own, even tho it has been inspired by her. I want to be able to guide my new stepdaughter as she embarks on life, much the way I do my own IRL. I would be able to offer unjealous and BIASED advice in relationships and studies and jobs/careers and life in general. I am literally an annoying fountain of wisdom and knowledge and genuine compassion. I love having long deep conversations about everything from science and religion to politics and sports to life lessons and I want to treat a young lady to it. Someone who needs a dad in their life just a little bit. 😉

I've come to realize that while I love the act of loving, I'm not a big fan of being in love and thus desire a different type of love with a woman. I have a very busy life with obligations that absolutely supercede everything so a girlfriend is not only out of the question but not desired at all. My new stepdaughter wouldn't wanna share her DADDY time with a stepmother anyway!! 🤣

Me: I am 6'1" tall and have dropped from 290lbs 2yrs ago to 190lbs today. I have kept my head shaved bald my entire life and have had a full nipple long beard nearly my whole life as well, which has gone about � grey/white. I work outside and stay tanned from that and I also previously was an amateur fighter in the mid 90s and am slowly trying to regain my combat physique. I have a few visible tattoos but not overly inked, yet! Being a girl dad my fingers and toes have been painted for most of my life as well! 😁 I am a dog and nature lover to the extreme and my favorite place to be is in the woods with my dog and my daughter smoking fire weed. I have a simple profession that affords me the comfort of providing for my large family and not much more thus i will not be a "sugar daddy" in any way, however of corse dads gonna pay for whatever we do together!!

My preference would be 18-22F. Race does not matter, ive loved every type of woman out there and yall are ALL amazing, i am however Caucasian from the mount of Caucus 🤣! My fantasy is with a petite girl, small enough to pick up and play with, however I am never against a lil bit of chubby as long as you can crawl around easily and flexibly!! 😈 Also I've recently realized that all the women I've been with over the years have had Dcup breasts so I'm very interested in exploring some tiny ones yet never against big ones! Haha

My goal here is to start by having conversations over time with a young lady ON HERE ONLY until we both decide we feel comfortable enough to exchange actual contact info. From there I would hope to develop enough trust and comfortability to meet in person so we could begin to actually develop a very close and long lasting inappropriate relationship based on nurturing fatherly love and insatiable taboo desires to be kept secret from the family so as not to destroy the whole tree. As it should be. 😉 In the long run we would essentially be part of each others SM and such which will reveal our close family and friends so this will be need to develop into an extremely trustworthy relationship with real true genuine care for each others wellbeing and lives and absolutely ZERO DRAMA EVER!! Basically I'm not looking for scumbags or hoes. I want a new stepdaughter who is goal driven and future life based but NOT wanting a boyfriend who's older than her.

If this is of interest to you please dm me with "hey dad my sisters would kill me if they knew i responded to this!" So i know youve read my entire post. My reply will be as if you are my new stepdaughter and that is how we will get to know each other IRL. Also I will require us to exchange "clothed with face" identifier photos within the 1st 2 or 3 msgs as well. Can't wait to hear from you sweetie!