We have been together for four years and we have finally reached the first big issue in our relationship. Our sex drives dont match.

I personally am a “fuck multiple time a a week” kind of person and she is closer to “Once a month, if that”.

Lately between us it’s been a topic of conversation. One of the solutions we are trying out is finding a third.

When we first started dating she mentioned that she was a cuckqueen but I didn’t really believe it….. here we are. Lmaooooo

I love her to death don’t get me wrong, we will be married one day soon. Personally I am not poly so if it’s romance you are looking for, the supply is limited. That being said, I fucking love physical affection/words of affirmation. She is bi as well, and is also a fan of physical affection/words of affirmation. The possibility for group cuddles and things of that nature is high for sure.

As far as my kinks.

Going outside of monogamy is new and scary territory for me, so I will need you to be slow with me in that regard.

My main kinks are receiving/giving praise and giving degradation.

I like being touched ya know, cherished, desired, craved. The feeling of someone desperately attempting to give me pleasure…. Gives me pleasure.

Its the same flipped, I want the person im fucking to know how hot they are ya know!

At the same time. (I know it’s weird cuz the kinks are almost completely opposite of each other) I love degrading my partner. Body writing, slapping, spitting…. Water sports, bruises, public stuff, you name it. We can get gross with it for sure if that is what you are into.

Thing is, the degradation is only fun if I can make you cum while we are doing this. Lololol.

Anyway yeah. This is new territory for me so if you have any questions, comments, words of advice… message me! I usually respond within the day.