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So, I realize this is a bit of an odd post to be making here, but I really could use some help with this and figured I'd at least give it a shot. A few nights ago (two, as far as I remember) I—at least presently a boy—had a very out of the blue thought late at night which spiraled into me beginning to wonder if I was not as cis as I had previously believed (I'll explain the entire thought process to you once you reach out, if you'd like me to, anyway). I had actually realized significantly prior that I didn't necessarily feel attachment to any gender, but given there was no real "answer" for me in that, I just let it slide, not really caring to think much about my gender identity. However, that nighttime thought made me start to think more about if there was truly an answer, and it's been pretty heavily on my mind these past two days. I am starting to think I might be instead a girl.
However, with only two days of thinking on this, I am obviously nowhere near certain or clear on my thoughts, so I would appreciate a second opinion. I haven't—perhaps predictably, on account of my prior belief in being cis, or at least cis enough that it didn't matter—had much experience with/in trans communities, but I think it would help me now to talk to someone who has experienced these things and can give an insider opinion on it. If you would like, we can become friends from this, so that it isn't just a one-time conversation, and I could perhaps keep you up to date on my thoughts on this whole thing, but if you want to only have this one conversation that's just fine too.
Hope to get some responses!
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