Hellooo! I'm Tara (She/Her), a 26yr old demigirl from Appalachia. I'm a dorky, plus size, butch (sometimes femme), pan-lesbian. I wanted to make this post to find some romance. I haven't dated very much in my life so far, but I'm deeply romantic and I'd love to find someone to share that energy with. I also enjoy kink and to me, the trust and care that kink involves is very romantic as well.

Something to know about me is that I'm very neurodivergent. I'm autistic, I have ADHD, and I struggle with anxiety & depression. With that, I find that I make very strong connections with people. I have a lots of social energy and when I click with someone I like to be able to share it. I'm also plural meaning I have a system of headmates similar but not exactly DID. It's complicated, but it's actually very manageable and doesn't come up often.

My hobbies basically boil down to one thing. I'm a creative! I love drawing, writing, worldbuilding, poetry, crafting, and all sorts of other stuff. I'm also a massive nerd. I like weird movies, I love cartoons, I watch old anime, I play PC games (BG3!), but most importantly I adore tabletop roleplaying games (it's one of my biggedt fixations).

When it comes to my personality, I'm all over the place lol. I'm a mix of alt, goth, & punk but I like all sorts of style aesthetics like goblin core and dark academia. I love spooky things but I'm actually a huge scaredy cat. Speaking of cats, I'm a furry too. Basically, I want to be a vampire cat girl that lives in a castle in the woods but also has wifi. Lastly, I'm a huge dork.

Kink-wise, I'm a true switch. I'm a gentle mommy dom with a sadistic side and a bratty little kitten. I really want to find someone that lets me feel both sides of the spectrum. Something I love about kink is the shared vulnerability and the trust that it takes. Some of my biggest kinks are: Caregiver/Little, Collar/Leash, Clothes (Cozy, Cute, Lewd), CNC, Exhibition, Free Use, Mutual Masturbation, Orgasm Control, Ownership, Pet Play, Praise, Shibari, Spanking, Teasing, Toys (Dildos, Strokers, Vibrators, Fantasy Toys), Watersports.

What I'm looking for is a committed long term relationship. Someone who wants to journey through life together. Obviously that doesn't happen overnight, but as someone who genuinely enjoys dating, I hope to find someone interested in getting to know each other and see where things go. I would love to meet someone who enjoys long discord calls and wants to play games together or stream movies and shows. I can be poly or monogamous depending on what the other needs. I am in a year long relationship with a headmate which most people don't really get but I want to be honest about it.

If any of this sounds interesting, I hope to hear from you. Please tell me some stuff about yourself in your message. I'd love to talk and get to know you too.