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Content warning: Sexual Violence, PTSD
I'm a 27 year old queer enby who is coming to cuddling after having survived sexual violence in August. Surviving trauma can be quite painful, and I'm looking for physical contact to help make things feel less scary.
I'm looking for someone who is trauma-informed, or at least open to learning about trauma so we can come this with a solid understanding of what to expect from each other. I want someone who understands consent, and has great communication skills. Also, I'm looking for someone who's an intersectional feminist. Not too sound to academic or pointdexterish, but I've turned to cuddling after being steeped in feminist care ethics. I think the world is dangerous place, and caring for one another is how we make each other feel safe. If you're queer and/or trans that's also a plus.
I can't host, and I'm ideally looking for someone who can host in the downtown Toronto area. But, I like commuting, and I'm more than willing to travel for you.
I'm open to exploring a sexual or romantic connection is those feelings arise, but I'm coming to this more from a perspective of community care and healing. I'm also open to other non-sexual forms of intimacy, like playing with each others hair, tracing our things on each others back with our fingers, or non-sexual kink like shibari or impact play.
Some facts about me: I love post-punk, The New Yorker, Susan Sontag, and Kate Bush. I'm 6 feet tall and have wavy hair, big eyes, and full feminine lips. I have pictures on my profile, if you wanna admire how cute I am :)
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