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21 [NB4A] Submissive looking for Dominant Monogamous LTR in #NJ or #Online
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BobiGoga is a non-binary person age 21 looking for anyone in New Jersey
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Age: 21 Height: 5'7" Appearance: dark brown skin, chubby, masc at current Interests: Anime & Manga(JJK, Naruto, HxH, JJBA, Dragon Ball), Games(Indie, Anything on the Switch, Oldies), TTRPGs, bunnies (animals in general honestly) Hi!! Making this post with the genuine hope to find someone I mesh with. I decided to include a list of kink and etc. as BDSM to me is pretty important and I'm very much a submissive. I enjoy nonverbal communication, and can sometimes use that in favor of words. I'm clingy, I don't consider that a good thing, but can't deny it. My current hyperfixation is ASMR, but it switches with my mood. I like learning and progressing and make it a point to always improve in some way whether it be in character or career.

I'd Ike to start with online chatting at first as I'm a bit shy. Please only message me if you're 19-24 and looking for a genuine relationship. I am AMAB and have started to go through HRT, if that will be a possible problem. I very much fit the stereotypical "bear" look at current. I have a beard, body hair, and a short fro. I believe relationships of any kind should be valued and appreciated and I'd try to exemplify that. I'm pansexual and monogamous with a femme lean (for me this means little to no interest in men, but I very much have a thing for "tomboys"). When it comes to a relationship I try to be attentive, caring, and honest. I make it a point to try to learn about my partner and work with them to create a happy and stable relationship. I value communication and think talking, even about nonsense, is very important. As for what I look for in a partner, assertiveness and protectiveness are attractive to me. However, time, energy, and effort are the most important factors to me. I believe most things can be worked on and improved upon if we each have these at minimum. When it comes to looks I have no specific type, to me compatibility is far more than base attraction.

Going into the BDSM aspects of value. When it comes to these I don't NEED any of them aside from my limits and more just prefer that my partner is aware of and respectful of the fact I'm very much not dominant. I want to keep all of this as transparent as possible, so that's why I included it. Words of warning, I'm new to bdsm and just starting to explore it, but pay tons of attention to the community. I'm fully a bottom, and tend to be a bit bratty / eager to please. I enjoy teasing and playing as much as I can, I like attempting to subvert the rules and being punished for it. I don't think brattyness for me is the same as what is typical. I enjoy teasing and tricking my dominant, but ultimately only act a brat due to a want for attention, and would hate going to the point of actually angering them.

Kinks: feminization, master/servant, primal(prey), worship, praise, anal, pegging, bratty submission, spanking, impact play, training, petplay, collaring, chastity, degradation, TPE, marking, FLR, objectification

Hard lines: scat, watersports, spitting, knifeplay, serious/permanent injury, blood, findom, exhibition

If you read through and are genuinely interested plz begin your DM with an emoji and a little about you. Feel free to DM me just to ask more questions, as I feel this post isn't perfect due to my inexperience.

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