Hey there! We (34M & 35F) are just beginning our ENM journey, and we’re hoping to find someone who is willing to be friends with the potential for benefits down the road.
The Situation: We’re engaged, and very happy together. We’ve always talked about being more open and including other people in our sex life when fantasizing or talking dirty to each other, but recently we’ve decided to take steps toward making it a reality. We’re taking it slow to make sure that it’s what we really want. So far, we’ve only talked to people separately, and online, which has been a lot of fun for both of us. We’ve met great people, and enjoyed sharing pics and videos with our respective chat buddies, but now we’re thinking of taking it a step further.
To be upfront, we are not quite at the stage of having sex with people outside of our relationship yet. Ideally, you would be willing to be friends first, and just stick to texting, dirty talk, and going out from time to time. If we all decide to take it further, then great! If not, no biggie. We’re also not opposed to ending up as platonic friends, if that makes more sense, because we would definitely love more of those!
Oh, and we’re 420 friendly :)
Him: I’m 5’10”, average build, man-bun/beard combo, and for the right person, I will u/MoonsaultIntoDatAss. I like to cook, game, read, and play with/train our two cats. I have pretty eclectic tastes in music, but I listen to rap the most. My book tastes are all over the place too- I read horror, fantasy, nonfiction, sci-fi, manga, classic literature, and books on nature and philosophy. If you’re a gamer, you’ll ask what I play, and if you’re not, I won’t bore you with it. I’m more of an adult than my username implies lol.
Her: 5’9”, thicc and chubby, drinks a fuck ton of u/yummpineapplesoda ;-). I LOVE trying new foods and sipping delicious drinks, exploring new cities, hiking & walking anywhere under the sun, and kayaking. I spend my time finding trippy new music, writing horror stories, studying self-actualization, learning about different spiritual philosophies, worldbuilding in The Sims 4, being plant-based, and seeking out videos that show things being destroyed in the name of science or by nature. Lmfao.
Feel free to message either or both of us. We can’t wait to meet you!
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