Given the pandemic, I'm not looking to meet up right away. But I'd love to start chatting over Reddit, text, etc., to plan for a time to meet.

I am a 33-year-old submissive guy with very little sexual experience. I am technically not a virgin, but only technically: I once penetrated a woman for all of 10 seconds before she asked me to pull out. (She was not into “vanilla” sex.) I’ve gone down on a couple of women, and I’ve had a handful of make-out sessions. But aside from those few fleeting encounters, most of my sexual experience to date has been in a BDSM context, mostly with professional dominatrices.

I am looking for a couple willing to show me the ropes, literally and figuratively. I am especially interested in becoming proficient at oral sex. My overall inexperience notwithstanding, I've had a couple "forced" bi experiences and really enjoyed them. I'm super turned on by what I call forced bi bartering — play with a woman that is conditioned on my pleasing her man. Other kink interests include bondage, pegging, light impact play, begging, and tease/denial. My limits are scat, kissing or rimming a man, CBT, extreme pain, and blood. Weirdly, despite my interest in forced bi, I am not into humiliation. I would prefer not to be denigrated or humiliated for my lack of sexual experience.

About me: I’m 5’8 and 150 pounds, and I am mainly attracted to people who are similarly height-weight proportionate. Non-kink interests include video games, baseball, movies, and dogs. Send me a message with a little about yourselves if you think we might be compatible. Please include a picture in your first handful of messages, and feel free to blur part of your face if it makes you more comfortable. I'd rather save us both the hassle of exchanging tons of messages only to learn that there's no attraction.

I live in northern New Jersey (Bergen County) and cannot host. I have a car and access to public transit, and I'm willing to travel about 90 minutes (which includes NYC).