Welcome to /r/SwingersR4R. We are a subreddit designed to help swinger couples find others in the lifestyle.

Whether you are new member, or a long time veteran of the scene, we suggest you fully read this post as it contains new rules and helpful information that may come in handy.

Title Rules

The title of your post must follow this format:

[MaleAge/FemaleAge][R4R][Location] - YourTitle

whereas:

MaleAge/FemaleAge - Self explanatory. Put the age of the male first.

R4R - First R is what you are, and second R is what you are looking for. Replace both "R"s with "MF/F/M/T/Q/R"

• F - Female/Woman
• M - Male/Man
• T - Transgender
• Q - Queer
• R - Redditor/Anyone/All

Location - Name of the city. Include state if ambiguous city. Include country if not in US.

Title - Whatever you want the title to be, but please make sure the title is not too long. If you want the post to link to an image, then post your detailed info as a comment instead of cramming it into the title.

EXAMPLES OF CORRECT TITLES

[45/37][MF4MF][Sydney, Australia] - Married couple looking for role play with another married couple

[26/25][MF4MF/F/M][NYC/NJ] - Couple looking for couple, male, or female to share fun with!

[35/32][MF4F/M][San Antonio] - Couple looking for a guy or girl to join, no couples

[27][F4FM][San Francisco] - Unicorn looking to experiment

Post Rules

1. Follow Title Rules - See above
2. No M4F, Bulls, Cuckolding/Cuckquean, Hotwife Posts - There are other subreddits for these, this is not the place.
3. [Rule Temporarily Suspended Due to Coronavirus] No Camming, Snapchat, Kik Only Posts - No posts looking only to chat with other couples
4. One Post Per Day - Do not post more than once per 24 hours, and do not delete your original post.
5. No Selling of Services and/or Self Promotion - This will result in an automatic permanent ban
6. No Low Effort Posts - No one sentence posts and or posts with text content hotlinked to another subreddit. Show some respect to your fellow redditors
7. No Gonewild Posts - No posting pictures unless attached to a r4r request
8. No Toxicity - No demeaning terms or personal attacks. Mods reserve the right to remove content or restrict users' posting privileges as necessary if it is deemed detrimental to the subreddit or to the experience of others. Insulting the mods will result in a unilateral permanent ban. If you got a ban without a reason attached, this would be the reason.
9. No Dating Posts
10. No Obscene Posts - No posts containing elements of obscene nature. (e.g. virginity, pain, gore, etc...)

Violating these rules will result in a temporary ban for first offense, followed by a permanent ban.

If you see a post violating these rules please use the report option.

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