Ok I’ve posted before with a little success here and there but my partner is shy and reserved so we’re taking our time exploring little things. We plan to hit a nude beach when it gets warmer and she’s had fun sexting with guys (which was super hot for me to witness!)

Ok so what’s my point? Well out of nowhere we have the whole night without our little one. But without any time to plan I’m looking for fun little things tonight. And I’m wondering if anyone here could help give us tips on tip toeing into some wild adventures or maybe give us ideas for tonight?

Some things we’ve talked about:

• Finding a clean, normal guy to give her a massage. We hoped to find a professional setting that would but alas noting like that anywhere we’ve looked, so maybe a guy who’d be down to meet in a hotel we book?

• Are there any casual bars or clubs where middle aged couple mingle or flirt. We’ve lived in other cities where these existed but I haven’t heard of any here, only full on sex clubs (which I’m down for but she’s def not ready)

• A fun sexy class we can take with others like BSDM or pole dancing?

• A male strip venue? I know they don’t exist but maybe something in this genre?

• any guys or couples down to just casually chat over zoom or something? My wife would prefer to wear a mask or something to be anonymous at first

• Maybe for tonight any couples down to let us watch? Maybe even a guy down to show off for my wife over video even if she’s too shy to show herself?

Ok, well worst case we’ll grab some drinks in the CBD, and try and find a pool table!