I had a thought and I wonder if any of you have thought about it too. I know my stbxh/wayward will cheat on this girl once the chemicals in his tiny tiny brain stop going to his d**k and his empty hole of a heart needs more attention from strangers to validate his bubble ego (it's fragile and so easily pops).

I'm wondering if, eventually, I will see a post on here by one of his APs lamenting on how "life isn't fair" and she "never thought it would happen to her", after all "he picked me over his wife". Like, in their minds they would be a victim of his cheating and would be standing where we are now. I wouldn't wish this pain on most people but on the same side, I wouldn't want them to get support either.

Sorry, weird rant. It just baffles me that when this does happen to an AP and they have shocked Pikachu face, how did they not see it coming? Like this message my friend sent really sums it up:

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"You know… I don’t see the appeal but to each their own? Lol like this chick is talking to this married man thinking. Broke, untrustworthy, and potentially emotionally abusive… hands off girls he’s mine"

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