I was in need of money so I was quite active on SA these days. For 10 days or so I was regular on site but couldn’t find anyone. Literally everyone seemed so weird and had real weird fantasies and kinks. Basically everyone wanted mechanical. Had such a bad experience that SD I spoke to, booked hotel but didn’t show up and canceled plan when I was on my way to meet him.

But I met this SD who literally changed my perspective of being in an arrangement. Sadly I’m moving to UK from Asia in next few days otherwise I would have love to have him as my long term SD.

Cut short, for him s£x is just a part of and arrangement. We met for like 4.5 hours in a hotel and he said we’ll chit chat and if we doesn’t vibe, we can part ways after giving me full allowance.

After we met, we got so indulgent in talking about each other and telling each other stories and experiences that we forgot about the time. I honestly wanted to stay longer but he arranged his further meeting according to my given time. I don’t know if we’ll meet again or not. And I also don’t know if I should message him again or not and even if I should approach again, when shall I text him? Like in a day or when??

When we were in lift, I asked him if it was good and I hope I didn’t waste his time and allowance just by talking. He said he would love to meet again and spend time talking again because arrangement is more than intimacy without knowing it’s mechanical.

So basically arrangements are not just about intimacy obviously everyone has their own needs and priority but this one was really different and hats off to this guy for changing my mind set about arrangement.