No kissing, no hand holding. I'm ending it

Five years, I'm fifty nine, she is fifty four.

Did that and laid out a schedule and amount she was estatic with the amount

Really three thousand brothers all attending her lifestyle for the first month is not enough in the Midwest ? I must be off somewhere . From what I've read on this forum this is normal to high.

She didn't do her hair & wore jeans - I wore a suit & my hair was done & blown out. . No manicure, no nails ..(mine are manicured) so explain how her time is worth more than mine ? She is fifty four, I'm fifty nine, so ninety percent of your post is off base.

Corrected - thank you

Obviously you powers of reading the debate posed by inner cloud failed. She quoted all the things that the lady does to prepare for a date, citied the massive age difference, and based her case on false statements. I responded she was only 5 years younger, didn't do her nails (I had) here hair wasn't done (mine was) ignoring these facts, inner continued to debate & attack. The mindset it won't hurt me to give over thousands as she breathes air in my vicinity is popular. I have a therapist & do not require a new one. I have vanilla dates & often split the check. Arrangements are mutual , despite opinions offerred

Your debating skills are excellent. I agree to disagree. Best wishes

I am clear that once an arrangement is reached and we agree to intimacy, allowance is set. While she agrees with the allowance, intimacy must grow organically as her intimacy has more value than my funds & attention.

Salty... I've yet to call you a single name. Yes, it's my money & box I don't just give it away. That's why I still have what I have. Mutual benefit isn't me passing out thousands to the masses - I do that for the Catholic church & World Vision. I appreciate your input, but reject your premise.