I’ve been on SA for about a month now. I’m in Oklahoma, I’m wanting a ltr/marriage minded situation preferred with a passport for all expenses paid trips.

I’ve met a few women for coffee or dinner and messaged a lot more, and while a lot of profiles say they want a LTR, none of them seem that they really want to.

I’ve been offered a wide array of ppm for “fun” activities, but I can’t seem to find any that are wanting to do a weekly/bi-weekly/monthly thing. Or an eventual live in situation which would be ideal for me (more trips basically.)

Not even to mention the vast majority of women here in Oklahoma don’t even know how to apply for a passport, much less have one to go on trips.

So am I looking for too much? Is what I’m looking for not on SA? I’ve tried just regular dating apps, and it’s... meh.

Stats: 100k income, 700k NW. fit, fairly handsome.