The subject says it all. I've been in a SR since late June. My SD is going through a separation. He is a well established level headed man. Due to COVID we've been meeting in hotels alot lately (sorry not sorry)

I just wanted to say I'm very happy with him. I guess I didn't think I'd be as happy as l am. We met yesterday night after a 3 week hiatus (our schedules just didn't see eye to eye). I walk in to this huge hug and kiss from him and we both said" I've missed you" at the same time.

What's funny about last night was, I was very self conscious about breaking out recently(my new birth control side effect) we were sitting down, he was looking at me straight in the face and he says " you look so beautiful tonight". My heart melted, I responded with a thank you kiss and told him my insecurity with meeting him that night. It's exactly what I needed, he put my mind at ease.

After catching up for the 3 weeks we haven't seen each other, we had sex( let me tell you this man knows EXACTLY what he's doing). We cuddled in bed and just talked the whole night. It so nice to be each other's outlet. We talked about vanilla dating, our kids(we both have children), our arrangement and all the headache we have when we aren't together. (Insert second round of sex here) he apologized for bringing his personal life into the conversation but I was happy to be his voice of reason. He's very hard on himself, and I told him he really shouldn't be. (Insert third round of sex here🤭)

It's just so easy, and I didn't think I'd grow attach to him as I am now. We are exactly what we need for one another and it's so nice. Nothing is off limits, we are open and honest with one another. We actually lost track of time last night which was nice.

Final thought: if you want a SD to be exactly what you need. With lots of weeding through all the fakes, creeps, etc. You will find your person. My SD tells me all the time how lucky he is to have found me, last night solidified how lucky I am to have found him.

❤️