Hey guys,

Sorry, kind of not sugar related, but I was married for a long time so never did the online dating thing. I'm trying both online vanilla dating and sugar dating at the same time right now. With sugar dating, after establishing a bit of a rapport, I usually ask her if she's interested in meeting up and for the most part it's worked fine.

I was wondering if I should wait a little longer if it's vanilla dating. Do I need to talk with her longer to make her feel more comfortable so that I don't scare her off if I ask too soon. I don't want to wait too long in case she eventually gets bored, but I don't know the proper protocols when it comes to vanilla dating. Thanks in advance!