I've been seeing this SB for about a month now. Everything is amazing when we're together, she's affectionate, it seems like we have a great emotional connection and really enjoy each other's company, I can't ask for anything more.

But, she doesn't text as much as I'd like her to. Sometimes she'll text me back on the same day, sometimes it takes 2 to 3 days to text me back. Ideally I'd like to text at least once a day, I want to know how her day was so we can build on that emotional connection.

I feel like it's a little harder to do when we're not texting at least once a day. I think on her end this arrangement is more like a friends with benefits no strings attached type of arrangement whereas I'd like it to be a little deeper than that.

I had two other POTs that I clearly let them know I couldn't start an arrangement and they still text me almost every day, lol. It's nice.

I haven't complained to my SB about this because I'd rather her text me when she wants to and not because she's obligated to. This isn't a deal breaker but definitely not ideal for me.