Met a POT about a month and a half ago for dinner for a M&G. It went well but I was conflicted about wanting to start an arrangement. I didn't want to start it and end it after a few dates because I wasn't feeling it. She's a nice girl and I don't want her to feel like I was doing a pump and dump. I did give her a monetary gift, which she didn't expect and didn't want to accept it at first, but I insisted.

Later on, I messaged her that under current circumstances I wasn't in a position to sugar and that she should see others so she doesn't miss out on an arrangement. She said she would still like to text and I told her I'd like that. I thought eventually she would stop texting, but she still continues to text with me to this day. I think my generosity as well as a lack of quality SDs compared to SBs is one of the reasons she still texts with me. I think I may ask her out to dinner only because she is an attractive girl both inside and outside and seeing her again may give me a more definitive answer on whether I can see myself with her.