So. I’ve been dating this really great guy for the past couple months. We’ve both been experiencing some money issues. Ive sugared in the past. I’ve probably mentioned it to him but only in passing. This past week I had a former SD reach out to me, and we chatted a bit, and he discussed us restarting an arrangement which isn’t physically intimate, and provides enough money to relieve a lot of my stress regarding tuition. My dilemma is that idk how to bring this up to my boyfriend. I don’t see this as cheating, because I’m not having sex with the SD. Am I just being unrealistic here? I need the money badly, and my job isn’t paying enough, and my class schedule isn’t conducive to a second job. This arrangement would help me out immensely.