Backgroud first. So me and my hubby are in a open marriage. He travels frequently for work usually spends 1 week a month or so in the PNW. He had a long term girlfriend/arrangement that moved to the other side of the country for work. I recommended trying S.A. for a chance to meet another open minded girl.

I have been the one messaging and setting up meets (10ish so far) I have been amazed by the girls.

Many have been just complete messes, no jobs, no car (I mean 25yo and up) show up late to the meet, or show up drunk. The best was a 28yo who brought her male friend (boyfriend?) To the meet.

The under 25 set that I can forgive the no job or car thing seem not interested in actually meeting. I have usually recommended meeting at a Starbucks and twice have gotten the answer, I don't like coffee. Like who cares get a water WTF.

That's all just kinda wanted to rant but aren't these girls who I know are real (I already weed out the fakes for him) serious? I mean if I was a 25yo grad student I would totally be on this wagon and serious about showing up clean, presentable and on time. It is kinda a job after all.