Forgive me if this is a repeat question here - long time lurker and somewhat newer at posting.

I recently closed out my arrangement with my SB because I felt like she was also seeing others, I had made it clear at the beginning that as long as we were intimate that I would expect exclusivity and she agreed, and of course there was Sugar to support that arrangement.

I'm curious however, SB's - do these type of agreements come across your table normally? And if so, what do you typically ask for in return with such agreement?

Back to searching for a SB in nyc and seeking doesnt seem to be much help anymore, lots of spam. Where have been the best online spots to find potentials?