I see post from SBs all the time about being scammed, and figured it would happen to everybody at some point. It finally happened to me, and I was surprised by how hurt I felt about it. To send someone allowance and gifts, and to think you’re developing a relationship, only to have them disappear and block you, I don’t know, I just wasn’t expecting it or the feeling of betrayal

I don’t want to seem like a softie. I just wanted to convey to all the SBs out there that I sympathize much more with you now, and I am incredibly sorry that happens to you so frequently. At the end of the day, I just lost some money, but SBs are taken advantage of for money and your bodies, which is worse. I don’t want to think about how I’d feel.

Some really genuine SBs (and SDs) reached out to me after my experience to offer some words of support, which I also was not expecting. But I very much appreciated them, and having something to feel grateful for while I was down helped make me feel better, in an ironic loop lol.

So anyways, I just wanted to put a word of support out there for others. You genuine SBs are appreciated, how you treat others is how the universe will treat you, I think. In this new year I hope you all meet a wonderful caring SD because you deserve it.