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is splitting the bill a 🚩?
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Hello! I know I recently said I would be taking a break from the bowl, but a opportunity arose and I thought to myself, "what could a m&g hurt?" .... well 😅

I've been chatting with a SD for a little while, it started off not related to sugaring but one thing lead to another and he asked, and I quote, if he could "treat me to brunch". So that's exactly what we did.

We met at a local cafe and it went great, we have tons in common and I more than enjoyed my time with him, things only started to go south once the check came. It was about $70 and some change, i'd like to point out was I did not order much, my drink was on the house and the sandwich I ordered was less than $10, he on the other hand got mimosa after mimosa and a large tray of pastries for himself. No shame, his food took up most of the bill is what i'm trying to say.

When we get the bill he asked me if i'd like to split it 50/50 and I was just very shocked? Like loss of words shocked. I've been on countless vanilla dates, (or just hanging with friends/family) and everytime someone asks to treat you to dinner/lunch etc it means they will be paying. The one other m&g i've been on he paid fully gave me gas money and a gift for my time, which I understand is going above and beyond but still.

Since I was just sitting there for a second trying to make sure my ears weren't fooling me, he rolled his eyes, mumbled something under his breath and basically slammed his card on the table. Waitress is standing there the whole time! It was such a turn from the kind person he had been up until this point. He basically gave me the silent treatment for the next few minutes but muttered a "bye" at least.

He's texted me a few times since then considering this happened yesterday, but I just can't bring myself to reply. Am I overreacting? Should I pay him back 50/50? I'm just very conflicted. 😵‍💫

edit: No I will not be paying him back and I blocked him on everything. I really appreciate the replies and dms. Thank you! ✨

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