Obviously I’m speaking too soon but I’m just in awe so I’m gonna rave about this here anyway.

As the title says I had a mind blowing m&g lastnight & it was completely unexpected.

I’ve been on seeking for the past few months & have had some (short lived) arrangements. I was actually beginning to think I was way too picky to sugar date at this point. I’m completely unwilling to budge on lots of things & typically within the first meet I’m able to identify things I believe to be pros & cons about a pot.

I had been talking to this guy for about a week & We had chatted a bit about interests & we aligned on a couple of things but I wouldn’t say I felt excitement to see him. He booked a Michelin star restaurant that I told him I was eyeing so his attentiveness was a huge plus. Nonetheless, I didn’t expect much from him. I didn’t even ask to go over expectations first before meeting - which is something I normally do. At this point though I feel like I’m just dating & don’t really care about the arrangement details as much.

Ffwding to lastnight: we had omakase so couldn’t talk too much but he had little funny, slightly hilarious things to say throughout our experience. He was so sweet the entire time & made me feel so comfortable. After that I asked if he was interested in taking this to a near by bar so we could get to know each other more in depth. We spent the next 4 hrs chatting away! laughing, crying (I started laughing so hard I cried a bit) and having so much witty banter that I started to question what the catch was…

Like I was so impressed at how well rounded this man was: hilarious, nerdy, attractive, tall, attentive, a feminist, experienced! WHERE WAS THE CATCH?! We hadn’t even gone over arrangement expectations & I was just enjoying the moment.

We even had a “who’s done more stupid shit” competition & we both had various stories of crazy experiences we’ve had. & we went on for hours just throwing jokes off one another. It was so free flowing, I kept telling him how much of a relief he was lol.

Now to the arrangement: we were on the same page completely. There was no negotiation.

I made a joke about a high allowance, & mid 4fig ppm & he agreed & I said I was joking. He wasn’t aware that I was joking 🤣. I said something lower but still high & he said “ok but stop talking yourself down. Keep it here” Like WHAT lmao.

He was such a gentleman continuously after that as well. After we realized it was freaking 1:30 am, I called my uber & he then slipped me a gift. UNEXPECTED. I obviously didn’t open it but thanked him so much. I was actually so turned onnnn but was trying not to be a complete slut 😭

I opened it when I got home & it was a x,xxx gift?! For a m&g??? This man is not a whale but he sure is extra & it’s something that I loved lol

Anyway we have plans to meet up today & im fucking praying he blows my back out cus it’s been a while since I’ve had my spine broken. Wish me luck guys ok bye 🤣