So I talked to this new SD. Really pretty man tbh. But he brings his vasectomy and tests on the first meet. He asks me after 2 « sexy times » when we exchange tests that he wants to remove the condom. So I told him : no we barely know each other. So this man says if I’m « making efforts » about the condom, I’ll want an arrangement with me. Either way, no. He made me feel that it’s not normal to be in a long-term relationship and wanting protection, because « if it happens to you with lots of guys, you should works on your fear », wtf (literally never deal with men who doesn’t want to use a condom, except 1 one time and I have a high body count soooo). He said that the condom gives him bad irritations, so I said well ok I understand perfectly. But I bring the feminine condom and this man change his excuse to « oh that’s about psychology, I hate the feeling »(prolly never used that tbh). Should I see him again? Sounds red flag. Give me your thoughts , PS : I DON’T MIND HAVING RAW SEX, BUT WITH A MAN WHO LET ME CHOOSE. I want to have the CHOICE.