I get that there are lots of SB who are aiming for a whale, I truly do; hack, why not, if you can find one, right? But I’m sure there are lots of really nice, down to earth, no-drama SB who would also like a SR with a mentally and physically healthy, easy going, well-educated SD who respects and inspires them to be the best version of themselves and perhaps can’t afford the luxury lifestyle a whale can, but can still offer a mid-range PPM that comes with real mentorship, kindness and respect?

 I’ve tried SA and SDM a few times, and tbh, 99% of the communication on both sites were either scammers (prob 60%), SBs who are seeking “online” SR, or high-end SBs only looking for whales; plus soooo much time is wasted on back-and-forth messages that leads nowhere :(

Are there better ways to find a nice and kind Splenda-Baby in LA?