We have been talking for long time and we made some video chats. He gave me his real name which made me suspicious because why he would give me his name so quick? He said he trusted me but he didn’t even see me. Anyways, he stopped texting me for a while and then i thought he doesn’t want to meet anymore.

He lives in another city which is 2 hours with car and today he suddenly said he is in my city and staying at a hotel tonight. I suggested to meet for coffee tomorrow but he asked if I’d like to get dinner tonight. I will go meet him tonight at his hotel’s restaurant but I’m a bit scared, what if he is a human trafficker or something. I will just meet for the dinner and not go to his room even though he suggested to eat there, but I declined.

And he asked me to stay over for few days without even meeting first which gave me big red flag. But I will meet and see tonight I guess.

Wish me luck! 😭

I’d appreciate any suggestions to feel safe for the first date.