Soon it will be around 5 years of me playing in these waters. And lord has it changed and keeps changing. When i first discovered this i did my research and took a lot of the forum advice to heart. This forum promotes some of the best practices in the bowl and often presents an idealized version of the lifestyle(for both sides). Even when i first started it was hard to find people that actually wanted anything resembling a relationship but it was not impossible. It usually took a few weeks of careful vetting and you could often find someone genuine.

These days… that ship has sailed, the most common interaction i get is : “this is my ppm tell me when and wear”. The second most common interaction is “i know my worth pay me a six figure salary for simply existing”. I swear no one is interested in having actual relationship. Guys want sex asap and girls want money asap. Seeking has become a glorified escorting board for people deluding themselves about what they are doing. Girls get to tell themselves they are not escorts and guys get to say they are not johns. The amount of women who ask me to meet without even checking pictures is ridiculous.