(Little longer read- I tend to word vomit)

Hey all, so I’m not really sure about this. I’ve been lurking this subreddit and figured it wouldn’t hurt to ask.

So I’ve been interested in the community for a while now but just a little nervous to really jump in. The thing with me is when I started gaining interest in this community a few years ago I realized I really have a ‘kink’ or genuine interest you can say for older guys.

I’m worried that going into it I might be seen as too enthusiastic? I really don’t want it too seem like I’m coming off strong or anything and end up completely ruining my chances.

I’d be going into an arrangement- excitedly- with genuine intention for something that is obviously mutually beneficial, but I know with all that’s going on in the community with money users and fakes I wouldn’t want that to be the impression I give off.

So question to mainly SD but all are welcome- have you ever been put off by someone who seemed too enthusiastic? Would it feel disingenuous like I’m in it for just the money and not for a connection? Or is it just my anxiousness that is making it seem like that would be off putting?

Thank you in advance 🫶🏾(I’m 21- not sure if that’s important in any way)