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Not talking about a sandwich. Just making that clear lol.
So I had a man reach out to me on a kink-forward but vanilla dating app. He’s been very persistent about serving me, and I really haven’t been in the headspace to go down that road with him. He’s asked me multiple times for a date or to do things for me.
I think we connected just around the time I lost interest in vanilla dating. Is there a way I can propose a sugar dynamic instead? How would you phrase it?
Omg thank youuuu! This is what I was asking for 🙏🏽
Ohh love this insight! And thanks for confirming that this isn’t a far fetched idea. How did/do you establish that dynamic in the early stages of an arrangement?
Literally no idea. These are uncharted territories for me, that’s why I’m asking for advice lol
Even if he’s unfamiliar with the sugar world? How do you bridge the gap? I feel like it takes nuance and tact
I like this perspective. We’ve spent time getting to know each other via text, and he completed a small assignment I gave him. Based on this i think it makes sense to move to an in-person date and potentially bring it up in the later stages of the conversation.
I really appreciate this, thanks for sharing!
Hehehe. Except it’s more like $12. Yay, inflation.
Exactly. And I wanna be very cautious and cognizant of that. It’s not my intention to use or exploit him. I’m very new to being a domme so I will go check out those forums and see if there’s anything helpful there. Thank you! 🙂
Totally. I’m naturally switchy. I’ve never been a pro-domme or anything like that. So it’s a very specific situation
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Good point! I mean, I will happily take the cleaning and meal making but I still have to put energy into vetting you and feeling safe enough to allow you into my home.