Reposting because my post was removed for saying amounts

I'll get straight to it

I met a Kenyan SD who stays in the diaspora on Reddit. He offered an allowance of low xxx a week at first, but said that's just my allowance and he'll be paying for everything else that I want to buy. I was ok with it at the time. He said he'll come to Kenya, we'll meet, then start. At this time, I thought the allowance would start when he came and would continue weekly no matter what. Besides, I'd have to spend several days (we had said 2 weeks ish of travel to Europe a few times a year, he'll come and we go to the Kenyan coast or another African country 3-4x a year) with him sometimes so it cancels out

He just came and asked me to come and spend a night with him tomorrow for a fraction of xxx, say yy. I was confused and he asked what's the problem as a week's allowance is xxx so surely yy a day must be great. I thought he was just going to start giving me permanent allowance weekly regardless of whether we meet that day, but

1. Paying for a night feels escorty

2. Even if I was an escort, yy for a whole night?

3. He expects me to get on birth control so we can go raw. He also expects things like pedicure done and in a certain color. Surely even just a pedicure costs more than half the offer, which I even can't afford to do enough times to be always looking great. Getting on birth control would be another whole expense.

4. The initial agreement was that he would pay for everything anyway and take me shopping as well, so xxx made sense if I'm buying luxury items on him and going out as well and xxx is just to keep and decide what to do with it or save because I don't need to use money.

I'm so confused, but on the other hand, I really need money as well but I think he'll just screw me over

What to do?

Obviously I'm not going but this seems to be the trend. Am I ever going to get a real sd?