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I’m (19F) afraid of my man (49M) spoiling me
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He’s such a gentleman. We’ve known each other for about a month now but he’s very sweet. He wants to spoil me, and he does at times when I allow him to. Other times I say no or don’t allow it to happen, or when it’s about to happen the circumstances aren’t right. Today we went into a store full of fancy clothes and he asked me if I wanted anything and I panicked and said no even after he walked me down to the women’s section. i feel afraid or even guilty when he offers to get me material stuff. I don’t mind when he pays for food and drinks and for my transport, but when it comes to material things I don’t want to seem like I’m in it for the money. I really like him but I don’t want to pass my opportunities at getting nice things like clothes which i absolutely love. I was just wondering if anyone had some encouraging words or some ways I can get over my fear of being to afraid or feeling guilty for whenever he asks to get me material things like clothes and to not panic and just say no to every nice thing he offers me. He always looks so happy whenever he offers the stuff to me and when I say no I think I’m doing him a favor by not spending his money. Idk, I just need advice or something’s.

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