I live in Barcelona, so when I received a message from a handsome SD that lives here I was super excited!

He offered a more than generous allowance that would have contributed to my life in many ways. we jumped on a (regular) call and once we got past the convo about my visions and dreams he started to talk about his wants and needs of his ‘sugarbaby’ (he kept using this word over and over) wanting to see ‘his sugarbaby’ 5 times a week

Then he started breathing really heavily into the phone and asked me what I bring to the table as a submissive and what I would be giving him as my dom

I put up a boundary and said I don’t discuss that sort of thing without a M&G

He agreed to dinner and then ghosted and I blocked him

I imagine vulnerable women would have fallen for the high weekly allowance and allowed this guy to ‘get off’ for free on a phone call. Makes my skin crawl

It’s a jungle out there guys. Stay boundaried.

EDIT: hes done it to other women who have reached out. His username is AMBOY Please be careful