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Did something happen with seeking or is it me?
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Previously when I was in the bowl I'd get instant responses from basically everyone. Worst case they'd message me back later next time they'd get on. I'd only message people online and it was very easy to get to know people and quickly meet up.

Before I was married 5'10" 190lbs and really looking for a bunch of arrangements. Now I'm single, 39, in great shape 155lbs and not very enthusiastic in having an arrangement. Also a bit off my game and just getting back used to small talk and such. It seems as if many are thinking I'm fake and not even responding to my initial message.

I'm still getting responses and everything but it's like 50% instead of 99%.

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I agree, although I am still getting responses... maybe consider some profiles changes? or who you are targetting? idk... i agree it's harder.

Everything continue to evolve and change and unfortunately good things often get swamped with people looking to scam or take advantage of others... so there are lots of real and good people still there - just more noise than there used to be. Stay safe out there!

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