Hey y’all,

So, this weekend I had a meet and greet with a potential sugar daddy. He took me to a really nice, high-end cocktail bar, bought me a few cocktails, and spent a decent amount of time together, so I thought things were going okay. I also liked him as a person, and I felt like we had a good connection. But when we got to discussing the financial support aspect, he totally lowballed me compared to what I’ve seen from other women’s questionnaires here in Miami. I told him that amount was too low and that it probably wouldn’t work for me.

To make it a little weirder, he joked around about wanting to “test our compatibility in intimacy” that night, but I made it clear that I wasn’t comfortable doing that. I figured we’d part ways after that, but now he’s reached out again, saying he wants to meet up for dinner and even offered to bring me a gift card for meeting him again this time.

I’m feeling a little frustrated because Miami is already a pretty competitive market for sugar babies, and I feel like he’s just wasting my time if we’re not on the same page.

Why is he trying to lure me into another meet and greet when we’ve already established that we’re not aligned on financial support? Should I start mentioning my expectations upfront before the meet and greet to avoid this? I thought it's better not to mention PPMs or financial support on seeking.

Also, do you think I should give him another try? Maybe he’s willing to reconsider my expected financial support if I bring it up again? I’m still figuring this out and would really appreciate some advice!