So my SD and I were texting one night while I was taking a bath and I had made a joke about being sleepy and “wouldn’t want a Whitney to happen” which really worried him. Then I wondered. If hypothetically, something were to happen to me, how would my SD ever find out? I can’t put him as an emergency contact (he’s married). He would just think I’m ghosting him. We’re thinking of a contingency plan of course now just in case. We’ve decided we’d each have a designated person that we’d be ok with the other to reach out to in case of an out of the blue, extended, no-contact.

Have you SD/SB’s ever thought of this scenario? What were your solutions? Are we just over thinking things? lol