Just about ready to give up on sugaring because I simply cannot understand why I keep landing in these situations. I was recently ghosted by my SD and I have no clue why. Since our last meeting, he raved about how he wants to see me more, trips he wants to take me on. Raved about the sex and how I'm "the full package." He asked me to text him twice a day so he knows I'm thinking about him. Randomly, like out of know where I went to text him one day and discovered I'm blocked. This was like 6 days ago, about a week since our last meeting. I thought maybe his other SB blocked me or maybe his wife? But I'm under one of his employees names so what could've happened? Super weirded out cause he was all about not blocking & communication and having something long term.

I still have access to a business credit card under his name and company with around xxx,xxx and another one with an unknown amount, also under his name. I have explicit proof (texts and videos) of him giving permission to use these cards. When I was with him I spent low x,xxx. Even when I expressed worry he claimed if anyone gets in trouble it's him. To maintain my integrity, since I discovered I was blocked I've stopped using them.

In the meantime, should I move on and forget about him? I thought I found a gem in my small town. Or should I try to contact him through another phone just to find out if blocking me was on purpose? It simply doesn't make sense and I'm so disappointed. We've been in contact for 6 months(during the first few months I was traveling and he actually supported me during my travels with x,xxx… at one point he disappeared and said he was upset because he felt he wasn’t getting enough from me. When I returned he was ecstatic I reached out). I think the other weird part is that he is googleable and he gave me way too much info on his personal life, children, wife. To the point I even have contacts of some of his employees and his primary home address. If I find he blocked purposefully then I have no intention of bothering him. If not though, I want to go back to what we had just a week ago!

my first SD left me because he was terrified of the age gap, but he texts me to this day. my second SD I blocked because he was toxic & possessive. And now, turns out 3rd time is not a charm!