Wow…. I guess I should start my post off to say I am new to the lifestyle & initially got on seeking in March to see what it was about. Clearly it was overwhelming but one particular guy in my area always messaged me etc and was interested but. at the end of the day he wasn’t for me due to being married and me wanting a little more time with someone that I would pursue whether it’s activities, trips, etc.

Well today as I’m getting a fitting in the only bra store that my town has… he comes in to get a gift card and recognizes me 😩 I say hi nicely and keep it really short and when I go to pay the girl tells me he paid for everything on his account and gives me his first and last name ( wow) I blocked him and don’t have his contact info. Do I just not thank him since he isn’t for me? Or do I go out of my way and find him based on the contact name? I really don’t want to cause marital trouble so I’m leaving this question here 🙏🏻