Hi all. I am a longtime lurker of this sub after I joined SA a couple years ago. Met with one guy from SA and decided that the sugar life was not for me (turns out I just met the wong guy…) but I still read posts here because I find it interesting.

I was not looking for an SD, but one I guess found me on OF (I am not promoting my OF, you will not find any links or NSFW content on my profile.) He asked me if knew where to get a sugar baby, I suggested he try Seeking. He said thanks and we chatted a little for a couple days.

Then he started tipping me large sums, seemingly out of nowhere, paying me compliments and telling me to come to his city to meet. Over the course of a couple of days he sent me almost as much as I make in 2 weeks at my full time office job.

This obviously got my attention. All this cash without ever meeting me in person? Seemed to good to be true. So I did end up coming to his city and we had a really great time. We’ve been sexting nonstop and he’s been quite generous to me financially.

Question is, I guess, is this normal? Are there red flags here? Based on everything I have read on this sub it seems out of the ordinary. I just want to get some outside perspective on how this might end bad for me. Thank you all!!!

EDIT: Also, he said he does not care if I dress up nice, have my hair done or nails done, etc etc. I thought that was kind of a requirement.