My SR had ended a few months back and it was a miserable end, like horribly. My SB was a borderline narcissist and when I wanted to end SR, I wanted to depart on good terms and just stay friends. She kept asking me for money after we ended the SR. And for a few days, I kept supporting her knowing she was in debt terribly. But after some time, I thought why not start the SR again with her as I’m still giving her money. She said no. But she still wants the money. So when I said no, she blocked me on instagram, WhatsApp or even my number. I wanted to end it amicably so I reached out to her via email saying I’ll support her but let’s depart on good terms, we don’t need to block. She unblocked me only on number (all other avenues were still blocked like WhatsApp etc). I sent her the money. Few days later, she again asked me for money and when I said let’s just stay friends, or if you need financial support, we can explore getting back into SR. She said no to SR and said send me money or I’ll block you.

I felt caught in the spiral and it never ended well. I wonder if SRs actually end well? How? How could I end my SR well since she didn’t want SR but wanted my money and when I said no, she ridiculed me and blocked me.