Ahhhh it got deleted. Okay no number dollar values in the paragraph… got it

First date M&G

Finally met up with a guy, business owner, mid 40s, and familiar with sugaring. Said he had done this once before but it was casual and they only met up a few times a month.

We went for a walk and had coffees, he brought me a green tea and wrap which was sweet enough of him. He was a bit of a mumble talker which was annoying but otherwise it went well. Halfway through the walk we are getting to know eachother and he asked me what I am looking for. I said I want something long term, some trips, an allowance in exchange for my company whenever he’d like.

He asked me to put a number on it, and said he hadn’t done an allowance before. I told him XXX per week and he scoffed at me. He then continued to say there are three levels of sugaring

Gold standard- an allowance, travelling , gifts etc.

Silver standard- PPM, gifts, some trips.

Bottom tier- going on trips, not having to bring your wallet when you’re around me.

He said “I am able to offer the last tier, but wow you want XXXX a month? I don’t think so”

I didn’t even talk about financials right away until he pressed me to give him a number and then immediately said that would prefer something “more modest.”

Do most SD think in terms of a tier list?! This is the first time I’m hearing this….