hi, so as much as i wish i didn’t have to deal with this kind of stuff, i am starting to feel like it may be blocking me from making the kinds of matches i’d hoped for. as a young female in my early twenties, i had started off thinking i’d be pretty successful at this lifestyle. no issues with my appearance, if anything i often wish i wasn’t perceived as a sex object but such is life. anyways, i thought- i’m attractive and young, no kids, just a college student with a dog, why not be a SB? however, i have had zero success in attaining a verifiable SD.

so I am here to ask successful SB’s who are brown skinned, if you have experienced this road block and what my options are. SA and SDM are not working for me. I have even been trying to make the initiative to message first, no luck. i’m starting to feel like either i am not as attractive as others have led me to believe (lol) or it’s my actual skin tone that’s disqualifying me ? like is anyone having this issue and what has worked for you guys in terms of the platform you’re using, etc. i’ve even seen that some girls are meeting SD’s here on the app, is there a specific forum that I can join? please help me out, i don’t have any issue attracting men in a traditional fashion. i’m just utterly lost and failing at finding a SD and i don’t understand what i’m doing wrong, or if it’s something i’m not doing ??