This has been a frequent problem with me ever since I joined seeking. I feel like I’m not one to give off the vibe for a quick one night stand but so many potential SD will go ahead and get sexual even before meeting and it’s a huge turn off for me. It’s like they just want to use me for sex or know what my kinks are, I’m getting the same creepy messages all the time even when I start to have a good convo. How can I prevent this from happening?

I understand that intimacy is apart of the deal but I kind it weird and off putting to bring it up even before meeting and them feeling like it’s okay to get sexual right away over text. Any advice is appreciated. Thanks!